Showing posts with label 365. Show all posts
Showing posts with label 365. Show all posts

Wednesday, January 1, 2025

creative light less year

 

This blog is named Creative Light Less, because that is how my family has always tried to live; creatively, more lightly on earth (and with an outlook of lightness and positivity), and with less impact. M and I have long been frugal, sometimes from necessity, sometimes due to principles. We have been DIYers, blending together different skills and interests, and we grew up in an area long known for its environmental and earth loving, crunchy roots.

As social media has taken hold and in the changing climate (environmentally, politically, and socially) of our country and world right now, I am seeing more people striving to have low buy, low waste goals heading in 2025. Many of the tips I am seeing are long established patterns in our household (thanks to parents and grandparents for leading the way), but I am here for it and in support of anyone striving to care for our resources and each other better.

As we head into 2025, I have been considering what I can do to push back against the patterns of social unkindness, mass consumption, and environmental damage, and I have decided that I need to focus back in on what I am good at, what comes naturally to me, intentionally recommit to what I have drifted from, and draw my family in to live a Creative Light Less year (and longer), with intention, as a method of harm reduction and gentle rebellion.

So that is what I am calling this year; our Creative Light Less year. This will look like us leaning back into buying less, acquiring used if we must, strengthening and building community, choosing environmentally friendly options, spending less money, putting our money behind our social and political beliefs, and all those other crunchy sorts of things. It will look like continuing to make a lot ourselves, grow some of our own, conserve water, use renewable energy when we can, drive less, be creative, and more.

I don't think I will be one of those people on social media giving all the tips and I won't even promise to pick blogging back up more (although maybe I will re-post some oldies), but I have lots of knowledge to share and know when to say "I don't know" if I don't, so ask. I want to navigate the year in community.

 

Used books for our home library from the library bookstore

Pizza, homemade by a teen

Here is a post from early January 2010, posted on my former blog, reflecting on a year of "not buying new" in 2009. I may share more posts from that year and challenge along the way, but I am sharing the end of that challenge, first, because it is from there that the years have flowed and we find ourselves where we are now.

with each new year, my biggest wish is that it be better than the last. january first is such a marker of how quickly time moves and how important it is to be conscious of the moments, good and bad, as they pass.

last year, our goals for 2009 included #4, a no-buying-new year. this has been an amazing eco-eco living challenge. can one live economically and ecologically? we reported on successes and failures each month as they passed, but wanted to share about our journey on the whole, a text heavy post i hope you read in its entirety.

the end of this month marks one year since we began, in earnest, our challenge to buy nothing new. while not perfect, we have done remarkably well, perhaps because the concept of used was not new to us. it did not take long before seeking used alternatives became habit, we began planning ahead for needs, we chose to do without, and many of the difficulties of the challenge faded away.

one area that provided us the greatest challenge and often broke our goals, were home repair materials. much of what we needed was either not available used or not available used in a form that gave confidence in the quality/integrity of the materials. and in buying new, it was difficult to always support the local hardware store. in my mind, shopping at the big box hardware store was one of our biggest flubs. thinking on this, i find it interesting that our continued shopping at costco does not invoke the same feeling of failure.

what i didn't anticipate, though, was that so many other environmental, parenting, and health choices would feel woven into this process and change or be questioned during this year. as with frugal living, environmentally friendly living is something we have always practiced. while we do not live in a thrifty area of the country, we do live in one of the eco-living hubs, and in fact, grew up here, recycling and doing other "green" activities from an early age. i have always considered mike and myself to be healthy, earth-aware individuals and i was startled at how much i felt these fundamental self-beliefs were challenged this past year.

in the past two years, too many people i know have been affected by cancer. perhaps diagnosis of this disease has improved due to technology, but as a scientist (yes, that is my background), i feel certain that cancer is on the rise due to environmental factors. it is my job to do all i can, no matter how seemingly insignificant, to keep our environment and our physical health as "clean" as we can. we thought of our children in our environment often this year and the changes in choices we have made have often been centered around them.

how does this all tie together? so many of the blogs, websites, and materials i have read (and continue to read) about our environment incorporate physical health, and often parenting. these aren't separate paths for a young family. they are very much intertwined.
on several occasions, i had to make the decision between used or new, a direct challenge to our goal of purchasing only used items.

used items are less expensive. they save items from the landfill. they can be repurposed into useful things when no longer useful in their original state. they are sometimes better made than similar new items. but in some cases, the appropriate item was hard to find used or was made of a questionable material.

new items can be purchased to spec. they can be bought sustainably and humanely. they can be safe materials. but they use new production resources and are expensive, particularly when the most eco-friendly versions are purchased.

and, of course, there were many times that we chose to do away with an item and simply not replace it or figured out a way to use something else instead.

this year has been such an introspective journey for me. what started for one reason wound down to this one year marker for so very many reasons. so many of them fundamental to who i/we have always been and the way i/we have always preferred things, but with so much more knowledge of products, resources, communities, practices, and so many more fundamental pieces that make up what we use and eat, how they are made, and where they come from.

this journey has tangled tightly with a journey into more informed and conscious parenting and more natural, mindful eating practices. the focal point spread from frugality to a holistic approach that suits our family. so many times i read and learned and felt startled and displaced with feelings of uncertainty about beliefs i have previously felt so certain of. i started the year thinking i was ahead of the masses in my environmental beliefs and now feel like i still have so much to learn. but i remain steadfast in my belief that each family has to come to their own place on their own terms, with no judgment. i know most of you will agree with that, but too many times over, i read directed opinions in various places or heard criticisms with my own ears. too many times during this past year, i felt self-conscious, criticized, or blatantly told what to do or what is right. (and yes, i realize that may have been as much my own self-doubt as it was the way the informant was expressing themselves.) it is my hope that in verbalizing our journey, i don't unintentionally make anyone else feel insecure of theirs.

although i love all natural materials, i have come to a balance that works for our family and our finances. i will still choose used first, because i have come to realize just how many natural items are available used, if one just has the patience to wait for them to become available and the organization to know what one really needs. and i have found informational resources that make me feel a little more comfortable about the non-natural materials we are still using.

as my friend genevieve recently put it...the truth is, despite our need to live frugally, our family is by no means poor. if we really feel we need something (and in most cases if we really want something), our frugal habits allow us to simply buy those items. it is because we are careful, pick and choose, and (in the grand scheme of american materialism) we don't buy much, that makes this flexibility possible. if we had been 100% true to our goals, we would not have been as frugal (we would have paid a huge amount for some new, handmade, local items), so there would be far less of this financial flexibility. it is for this reason that i do not feel too badly about continuing to use costco for some bulk food and eco goods.

so it is with this first year behind us (and i say first, because, although we have concluded the 12 months we set out to do, we are by no means returning to where we were at the beginning) that we enter our second year with an acceptance (and honestly, an understood appreciation for) some of the plastics, chemicals, and other non-natural materials in our lives. it is as we start this year that i say this is where we are right now. one thing i already knew about myself is that i am open to changing my opinion and believe in learning every single day.


Our "backyard," for which we strive to be good stewards.


 

Monday, January 1, 2024

open 2024

 

2024 marks my 15th year of choosing a word for the year ahead. (My first word was Calm in 2010.)

Last year, I chose three words; strengthen, possibilities, and purpose. I had a hard time selecting one and I thought the three complimented each other, but that didn't work for me. I forgot my words and kept returning to older words when in meditation.

 


This year, my word is Open. I don't think it is the most exciting word, but it kept coming to me as we closed out 2023, and even a perusal through the thesaurus brought me back to Open. It is simple and I like simple. 


In 2024, I want to be Open to possibilities, growth, opportunities, growth, open spaces, bravery, and being open-minded.

This year, I have a beautiful new notebook to use, handmade by Lala Bug, complete with a handmade book cover, almost entirely from recycled materials. Something special. Wishing you well in 2024.





 

Thursday, March 11, 2021

pandemic-versary

 


One year ago, on this date, the kids, through a class with F's (and L's former) charter school, put on a theater performance of Macbeth. (F was a murderer and L was costume assistant.) It was an outstanding performance, happening after quick and concerned communications and changes in plans last minute, as the news kept turning up new information about a growing pandemic. 
 
Grandparents were missing from the audience, from an abundance of caution. The dress rehearsal and performance were the only things F had done in 2-3 weeks, having been sick. (Yes, it has occurred to us since that he quite possibly had it.) 
 
After a joyous performance (who knew Shakespeare's Macbeth could actually have a hint of humor?), our family headed home. Little did we realize that that would be it for a long, long time. L's hybrid school had already begun shifting students to remote learning and M's work told him not to come in. L's dance classes got put on pause until they could shift to Zoom, where it has remained ever since. 
 
Effective Friday the 13th, our entire area shut down and on March 17th, became the first in the country to lock down into "shelter in place." An entire year has unfolded, unlike any other. M has never been back to the office, working from a stool next to our bed. Holidays and gatherings have all been outside and masked. We had our first summer missing time at the lake. We got chickens. We survived the worst wildfire season in decades. We have biked almost weekly with grandparents for months. F grew. A lot.
 
We have been extremely careful, and we and close family are all still here (blessing), there have been so many silver linings! But the social distancing has taken a toll on our emotional, mental, and developmental health and growth.
 
For the past couple of months, this year's weekly Shakespeare class has been on Zoom, with F as Julius Caesar and L as costume assistant again. Today, the kids resumed a weekly, outdoor, masked soccer skills group that they have been part of for 6+ years, the first time really engaging with peers in months. It was good. 
 
One year, then and now. What is your story?

 

Sunday, December 31, 2017

happy



Each year, I choose one word, a grounding word, to hold in my mind and heart when I need it most.
This year, I thought of many words that seemed right; Reflect, Connect, Rest, Quiet, Us, Grow(th), Acceptance, Smile, Contentment, Consciousness, Creativity, Letting Go (two words, I know).

I needed a simple word to return to, something that, in some way, can encompass all of those, depending on how life ebbs and flows.

So I am embracing the word Happy.

Happy is a feeling I want to reclaim. I feel as though I have lost it as I grasp for other things. Honestly, what I really came down to were the words Expectations and Boundaries/Limits, which would, in turn, lessen my feelings of Guilt, something that really chokes out Happy. So, through the year, as I meditate on the word Happy, I will be checking in with myself about Expectations, Boundaries/Limits, and Guilt.

This is my 9th year choosing a word. My previous words for each year were as follows, and each has given me one anchor to pause and meditate on when I need just one thing.

2010 ~ Calm
2011 ~ Nourish
2012 ~ Hope
2013 ~ Renewal
2014 ~ Treasure
2015 ~ Joy
2016 ~ Laughter/Humor (Really, it was a word that was an inside family joke. Here is my post.)
2017 ~ Harmony (Here is my blog post from last year)
and now,
2018 ~ Happy

When I look back and think about those words, each one brings such unique memories of my focus for that year. The summer I practiced embroidery at the lake by stitching calm into the sampler. The year nourish shifted from tending my pregnant body to tending my miscarried soul. The year I needed to remember to treasure what I had instead of looking for something more, different. These words are an anchor to focus my busy mind.

Each year, on our adventures, I find a rock along the way, write my word of the year, the year, and where I found it, on the rock. I then add it to the growing pile in a big shell on my dresser. Sometimes, I stop and handle the rocks, holding the weight of those words and memories.



I hope you found harmony in 2017 and may your 2018 be a happy one!

Saturday, December 30, 2017

52: 52



52 weeks of photos. A special moment during the week of December 24, 2017



And that's a wrap.

Saturday, December 23, 2017

52: 51



52 weeks of photos. A special moment during the week of December 17, 2017

Saturday, December 16, 2017

52: 50


52 weeks of photos. A special moment during the week of December 10, 2017

Saturday, December 2, 2017

52: 48



52 weeks of photos. A special moment during the week of November 26, 2017

Saturday, November 25, 2017

52: 47



52 weeks of photos. A special moment during the week of November 19, 2017

Saturday, November 18, 2017

52: 46


52 weeks of photos. A special moment during the week of November 12, 2017


Saturday, October 14, 2017

Sunday, October 8, 2017

Saturday, January 7, 2017

365: 1-7

Last year, I started the year determined to post a photo a day. Yup, failed at that. I am sort of going to try again. This year, as part of an attempt to get myself more organized and consider my focus on harmony, I going to try and carve out a little regular blogging/writing/photography time weekly, so I am hoping to post photos from the week, once a week. We'll see how far I get. Here is week one.

 Sunday, January 1: Winter spiral walk

 Monday, January 2: Archeologist block from Dada

 
Tuesday, January 3: Thank you notes
 
 Wednesday, January 4: Memory with Mama before everyone else wakes

Thursday, January 5: Lunar landing at the space science center
 
Friday, January 6: Our first (previously loved) drum set. The littlest drummer didn't want me to take a photo of him.

 Saturday, January 7: Dinner at Grannie's

Sunday, September 25, 2016

right now...

I am so slow getting photos marked and uploaded and blog posts written. There is a part of me that thinks I should scrap blogging all together. (Hasn't everyone bailed for Instagram anyway?) Part of me just can't let go, but I can't seem to carve the time from all the other balls I am juggling. This is all to say I am weeks behind. While I did get a post up for sweet Lala Bug's birthday, I haven't shared much else recently.

That said, the days have been full and I want to get some of it down, so years from now, I can look back and think "those were the days!"

Our little family was separated for a time when M traveled to India for work. His absence was felt acutely by all of us for various reasons, but Skype, which I previously didn't like, was fabulous for keeping us all connected.  When he returned home, we were, of course, learning about India, so we had a lovely tea time with Indian tea, treats, and stories.


Lala Bug will still insist math is her least favorite subject, but I have been catching her in self-directed math moments. Above, "May I just have a few more minutes to work on this before bed?" ("This" is a mixture of geometric math and art in This is Not a Math Book by Anna Weltman.) Below, she is curiously tackling a math challenge sent home with her from the math club she is unwillingly attending through our homeschool charter. (She seems to be liking the group, despite being the only one who didn't volunteer to sign up!)
Misty bunny, just because she is so cute. When we got her, I thought she might be especially therapeutic for Lala Bug, yet at the moment, it is Little Brown Mouse who is totally taken with her and can be heard adoringly sharing about her cuteness.

Below, Little Brown Mouse is doing rec soccer. The kids' weekly soccer class that he has been in for over 2 years now has been outstanding. He really shows skill on the field and I love his team and coach. Really positive, supportive, low pressure, fun. Lala Bug really wanted to do rec soccer too, but there was no room for her age group when we applied (right before the season began). She was incredibly disappointed, but has been the best cheerleader and coach (to me on what is happening in the game)!

 The photo above is just to say I love our homeschool charter. This photo is one of the many fabulous activities that happened on a recent activity day. Salad dressing. The kids came home and made salad for snack!



 Below, the kids at play. (Well, they aren't in the photo, but this was their set up.) Honestly, I am not quite sure what they were playing, but they were content, amiable, and darn cute.
Above, he ran out of city blocks for his alphabet. :)
We have been studying the moon during September. It has been lovely. We've moon gazed, read various books about the moon, made moon phases from Oreo knock-offs (I never buy them. Ever. The kids were thrilled.), went to the space and science museum, sat on a hill and watched the full harvest moon, and more. It has been enchanted bonding and was especially sweet when M was in India and the kids realized we were all looking up at the same moon.






Wednesday, August 31, 2016

366: 244

 It has been awhile since I have done a day in the year post. Ages. Clearly, my plan to post daily this year was a flop. Today was one of those days I want to share about, mostly because it followed yesterday. Starting Monday night and rolling right through until I crashed last night were...rough. I hit a low. Tired, anxious, frustrated, worried, etc. Just low. But some serious crying and some solid sleep meant I woke to a new day.

Today was far from perfect, but it was the joy and connection of an ordinary day.

 We started our homeschool year, in earnest, part way through last week, and extra activities are beginning this week. We probably have too much going on again. We'll see. Today, though, we had a 'home day.' Not too long after M left for work, there was anger, irritation, and sibling squabbles. I turned around, grabbed my backpack, and told the kids to get their shoes on. We started our day with an hour of soccer drills at one of our favorite parks. That was the reset we needed. Home again, we did read-aloud, lessons, played, and the highlight for my kids; we spent a chunk of time doing Mystery Science.
The kids helped make dinner, we had a snuggly book reading, M tucked in Little Brown Mouse, and I sat with Lala Bug while she wrote some in her Success book.

All in all, a good day.

Thursday, May 5, 2016

366: catch up

late April, early May, 2016

Well, I began this year of laughter and humor full of determination to post daily and I haven't even come close! Life and homeschooling are good, however. Full of growth, change, adapting, learning, connection, and laughter. Here are some photos to catch me up just a little bit.